Flying with Littles:

What I’ve Learned

(And What I’d Tell Any Mom Doing It for the First Time)

If you've ever stood in an airport security line with a toddler melting down, a baby strapped to your chest, and a backpack full of goldfish crumbs… then hi, you’re my people.

Traveling with young kids isn’t always easy, but I promise—it’s absolutely possible. I’ve flown with littles who cried through boarding, giggled at takeoff, spilled snacks mid-flight, and fell asleep only after we landed. But over the years (and many miles), I’ve figured out a rhythm, and it starts with one truth: the more prepared we are, the less stressful it is.

So, from one mom (and travel advisor) to another, here’s what I’ve learned that might help you, too.

✈ Before You Fly: Set the Stage

Talk About the Trip in “Story Time” Style

Kids love predictability. A few days before we leave, I start telling the trip like a bedtime story:“First we go to the airport. We’ll roll our suitcases and find the big airplanes. Then we go through a tunnel and sit in our flying seats!”

Even if they’re too young to grasp it all, walking through the sequence builds familiarity—and that eases anxiety for both of you.

We have a digital book all about what to expect in the airport that we go over.

I also printed it for them to color.

Pick the Flight That Works With Them

A 6 a.m. departure might seem ideal for cheaper tickets, but if it means waking a grumpy 3-year-old at 3 a.m.? Not worth it. If you can, book around nap time. I like late-morning flights: we’re not rushed, and there’s still hope for a nap in the sky.

Request What You Need in Advance

If your child has any sensory sensitivities, mobility challenges, or special dietary needs—say something early. Your travel advisor (hi, that’s me!) or the airline can flag it so you’re not scrambling at the gate.

🧳 Packing Like a Pro

(Or at Least a Mom Who's Been There)

The “New Toy” Trick

There’s nothing like the magic of a new toy to grab a preschooler’s attention. I always bring one or two little surprises—a sticker book, invisible ink pen, pop fidget—nothing noisy or messy, just something exciting for the plane.

Snacks. And Then More Snacks.

Let me be clear: you cannot overpack snacks. Even on short flights, tiny tummies demand variety. Think pretzels, apple slices, dried cereal, cheese sticks, and yes, that emergency lollipop (especially helpful during takeoff and landing for ear pressure).

Wipes and Clothes for Everyone

It took one juice box disaster to teach me: pack an extra shirt for yourself, not just the kids. And don’t forget baby wipes—even if your child is way past diapers. You’ll use them for hands, spills, tray tables, and so much more.

🛫 At the Airport: Leave Time, Not Tears

Get There Early. Like, Really Early.

Everything takes longer with kids. Security lines, bathroom breaks, snack stops—it all adds up. Arriving early helps you move at their pace instead of dragging them through at yours.

Let Them Explore (Safely)

After security, I let my kids “burn some wiggles” with a walk near our gate. We count planes, watch luggage carts, and spot airport doggies. That little bit of fun helps them feel less like they're being dragged through grown-up chaos.

⛅ In the Air: You’ve Got This

Let Go of the Judgy Stares

Yes, your baby might cry. Your toddler might kick a seat. Breathe. Most people are kind or at least understanding. And those who aren't? Not your problem.

Keep It Cozy

My youngest always flies better with their blanket and favorite plush in hand. Familiar things bring comfort. I also bring child-sized headphones and load up a few shows or apps ahead of time—downloaded,

not streamed (hello, airplane mode).

Embrace the Moment

I’ll never forget the first time my oldest looked out the window and said, “We’re flying over the clouds like a bird!” That joy? That wonder? It makes the rest of it—yes, even the midair diaper change—worth it.

💙 Final Thought: You’re Doing Great

Flying with kids is a little chaotic, a little exhausting, and also full of magic. And the more you do it, the more confident you get—just like they do.

So take a deep breath. Pack the snacks. Bring the lovey. And remember—you don’t have to do it alone. Whether it's your first trip with littles or your fifteenth, I’m always here to help you plan and feel prepared for whatever’s ahead.

You’ve got this, mama.

—Sheila Smith

Child Developemt Associate

Ceritfied Autism Travel Professional

Certified Accessible Travel Advocate

Certified Quality Agent

Super Agent with Travel Leaders